Right on, I totally here you there. One thing I have been debating on was making ALL profiles private unless you log in, and perhaps even moreso make it where only your friends can read you profile? I know I can do it globally, but I can't remember if there is a way to do it in your profile as well. But would you see if you can try to make it private to only your friends? And if that does not work, I might put ALOT of thought into making it globally private. I know Facebook on the news was just talking about how they were concerned about this sort of thing. Damn robots

But if you think that might help make this stie more usefully to you, let me know, I bend the will of the site to meet the needs of the users

And I can understand how privacy would be an issue at the same time you want to thave the convenience of all the links.